3 Perfect First Dates Ideas for Building Attraction

Your first date with a woman is one of the most important steps towards build attraction.

Without mutual attraction and interest, you’ll have little chance of going on a future date or building a relationship.

That’s why it’s vital that you take her to right place on your first date.

Now the one mistake guys make is to appear too overeager by brining women to fancy restaurant or buying her expensive gifts.

By doing this, you’re only setting an uncomfortable situation. In addition it does nothing to build attraction.

So to have a great first date where you can build attraction, you should think of places which can provide memorable and fun time. In short you want to go to place where you can establish an emotional and physical connection. Then if you enjoy your date, then you plan a second date which is more traditional- like taking her to a restaurant.

If you’re stuck with where to go, then you can use the three first date ideas I’ve included below:

Perfect First Date Idea #1- Meet for drinks or coffee

Although meeting her for drinks or coffee is a typical idea used by many guys, it still provides an effective environment for getting to know a woman.

When you meet at a place like this, you’ll be able to talk n a casual manner without the feeling of pressure like you would at restaurant.

In addition at a bar or coffee shop, you’ll be in close proximity to one another which alls you to establish physical contact. So you’ll be able to flirt and do things to build attraction.

Perfect First Date Idea #2- Play games

Another great place for a first date is a place where you can enjoy playful games like a video arcade, pool hall, miniature golf, or the boardwalk.

What’s great about this idea is you’re easing the tension which often happens on the first date. You can enjoy yourself while playfully competing with this woman.

Perfect First Date Idea #3- Get physical

The final first date is to do something which involves engaging in a physical activity. This could be hiking, ice skating or rollerblading.

This is an incredible way to have fun while figuring out if she has an adventurous attitude.

These three first date ideas can be an excellent way to build attraction and rapport. They all provide a fun while avoiding the pressures of the dates which seem more like job interview.

All you have to do is keep things low key and fun. Then you use the fun experience to build towards a second date and quite possibly a long term relationship.

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Romantic Ideas for Romantic Dates

Sometimes it can be hard to find a great romantic date or think of great romantic ideas. Valentine’s Day is only once a year and then there are certainly expectations, however, the rest of the year can be just as important. The good news is that if you get just a few hints and tips you can be filled with romantic ideas to please your wife.

A great idea is to not limit your thought of a romantic date to a several hour or one night event. You can make it a great weekend getaway and there are boundless options. You can drive out to a quick getaway out of town or try out a special bed and breakfast or resort. If you can’t make a weekend out of it, just drive out for a day trip to someplace new.

A simple change to the tried and true classics and romantic dates can quickly turn worn out dates into romantic wonders. Instead of going out for dinner and drinks in the same city you always do, go to the next closest big city. New restaurants, new sights and a new atmosphere is a sure bet for a romantic date. These create great shared memories and experiences and inject excitement into the relationship.

More romantic date ideas can always be found close to home though. With a little effort you can find many different, new romantic ideas that you never realized. Trips to museums, parks, new restaurants, local fairs and events and anything else along those lines are great for romantic dates.

Other small touches can go a long way to turning just another night into a memorable romantic date. Buying flowers for your wife when they aren’t expected is always a great romantic gesture. You can rent out a limo for a night and go out on the town as if it was your prom all over again. Small changes like these are unexpected and can easily impress.

The typical date ideas everybody knows about and everybody tries have been around for a long time for a reason. Some might seem boring, but taking them to another level is a great romantic date idea. Go for a candle lit dinner, except rent out an entire section of the restaurant. Or cook up a romantic feast at your home and do all of the work – with candles through the house (be safe, though).

Romantic date ideas can come at any time and any place. They don’t have to be reserved for a weekend or a once a month affair, the more the better. The more of these romantic date ideas you use, the more your love will be affectionately drawn towards you.

Nick Lombardi is a life coach and a relationship coach who specializes in helping husbands rekindle the passion in their marriages. To discover how to spark romance and passion in your marriage , visit http://www.IgniteHerPassion.com

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