Your first date with a woman is one of the most important steps towards build attraction.
Without mutual attraction and interest, you’ll have little chance of going on a future date or building a relationship.
That’s why it’s vital that you take her to right place on your first date.
Now the one mistake guys make is to appear too overeager by brining women to fancy restaurant or buying her expensive gifts.
By doing this, you’re only setting an uncomfortable situation. In addition it does nothing to build attraction.
So to have a great first date where you can build attraction, you should think of places which can provide memorable and fun time. In short you want to go to place where you can establish an emotional and physical connection. Then if you enjoy your date, then you plan a second date which is more traditional- like taking her to a restaurant.
If you’re stuck with where to go, then you can use the three first date ideas I’ve included below:
Perfect First Date Idea #1- Meet for drinks or coffee
Although meeting her for drinks or coffee is a typical idea used by many guys, it still provides an effective environment for getting to know a woman.
When you meet at a place like this, you’ll be able to talk n a casual manner without the feeling of pressure like you would at restaurant.
In addition at a bar or coffee shop, you’ll be in close proximity to one another which alls you to establish physical contact. So you’ll be able to flirt and do things to build attraction.
Perfect First Date Idea #2- Play games
Another great place for a first date is a place where you can enjoy playful games like a video arcade, pool hall, miniature golf, or the boardwalk.
What’s great about this idea is you’re easing the tension which often happens on the first date. You can enjoy yourself while playfully competing with this woman.
Perfect First Date Idea #3- Get physical
The final first date is to do something which involves engaging in a physical activity. This could be hiking, ice skating or rollerblading.
This is an incredible way to have fun while figuring out if she has an adventurous attitude.
These three first date ideas can be an excellent way to build attraction and rapport. They all provide a fun while avoiding the pressures of the dates which seem more like job interview.
All you have to do is keep things low key and fun. Then you use the fun experience to build towards a second date and quite possibly a long term relationship.
Log House 2
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[This is one of 5 images] This abandoned log house had some very serious issues; image 5 shows how the right wall has buckled and split, and image 4 shows either a replacement wall or one built this way out of necessity. The bottom of the front door is flush with the ground, and the bottoms of the two lower front windows are no more 2 feet from the ground. Also the placement of windows in the front façade is irregular I didn’t know that people painted log homes. I have no idea of the date or any history regarding this building except that this is definitely vernacular architecture. Taken June, 2011—I’ve not passed by this house since then and don’t know if the building is still standing. Located near Chase City, Mecklenburg County, Virginia.
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